Im a mean person reddit I didn't even apply to university myself, my mom did. I’m a mean person . Third thoughts and you might be a witch. That doesn’t represent your worth. I think a lot of people would like to believe this when they're in love with the person they've dreamed about. It can been very hard for a person whom deals with someone with depression and episodes of anger. I also have conversations about I’ve never understood why I enjoy being mean so much though. I mean, it kinda says it in the title. She's also a fun person, likes trying new things, drinking gin, etc. I’m not a bad person just very shy and not very good at socializing. Take a deep breath. don't think ill ever change because i'm an angry person who doesn't believe in anything anyway. I feel like I’m turning into a mean person and i’m losing my previously kinder and upbeat self and I don’t know what to do Vent For the last few months, my best friend has been telling me i’ve gotten meaner, constantly bringing up how i’m just not nice, and overall not how I used to be. I connected and calibrated everything but if my hip tracker disconnects for a fucking millisecond (which can happen if I'm turning around 1. If I’m a mean person, I wouldn’t know. Critic,condemn and whining by them happened when we can't be that kind of person instead of being ourselves. I’ve learned how someone treats you shows more about who that person is more than anything. They are also mean because they are bad themselves and blame others. Literally changes stories. I often get negative reactions from people i barely know. A lot of people here saying he’s not a good person. i think i am a mean person i forgot my phone this morning at home and so when i got to work i called my partner and asked if he’d be able to bring it to me on his way into work. Just because it takes someone longer to learn something doesn’t mean they are any less intelligent. But I still dont miss a beat to remind them. Go to mentalhealth r/mentalhealth • by Vancouverreader80. ive started to harm myself and have My friends keep telling me i’m a mean person, but i don’t think i’m mean, and i don’t want to be a mean person. My whole thing is why does me not being perfectly stable and emotionally well mean im doomed to be single my entire life. Just because nosey Nelly asks a question doesn't mean you owe them a response. I’m not suited for society, and I don’t deserve to be around anybody other than myself. I've dropped out of school like 4 times. I give up on everything. However, those are basically her only two modes- she is I am always having this. Everyone learns at a different pace. It's like having a trainer for your mind that helps you put your feeling into words, so that they don't have such a stranglehold on you. And even not only hearing. Shes a mean girl in disguise and cliquey with all the wrong hollywood girlies. I think the people around him enjoy his company and seem to think of him as a good person. that only brings on mysery and unbearble guilt. And some people struggle with neurodivergent disorders or learning disabilities. but i realize most of those are social roles. I ask because some articles put Swift in the nicest celebrities. That will destroy you. First, let's define guilt. i just feel like everyone would be so much better without my pointless existence. idk i dont want to be a man, i just would like all the perks of being one lol. All but two of my friends dropped me. I’m a very nice person. I often do mean, borderline emotionally abusive, manipulative things out of boredom. This is how you build respect and they will think twice when they speak to you or around you, which everyone should do imo. He treated his only friend badly to impress others and get with them and climb the social ladder. Soo you can choose to accept their demands or stand for yourselves (Or maybe both). Sounds like your brain is lying to you. I love it when the mean people guess wrong and piss on the wrong person. I really don’t mean what I say and I only see it’s a mean comment after I have said it. sometimes, it’s better to just cater to how you know the person will respond rather than doing something you think isn’t mean. It’s not just saying things either, sometimes i’m negative towards others in my thoughts when i really don’t want to be. You are no better than them but they are likewise no better than you. No, what it means is that they wake up with little energy and build energy throughout the day. please dont listen to people on tiktok. i am by all means untrustworthy, selfish, attention seeking, hypocritical, annoying and toxic. ” i don’t understand why they would think that, and i really don’t want to be considered a mean person. I lost those friends as well. However, on Reddit, particularly Pop Culture Chat page, they say she's not nice and is actually mean. As talented a player as he is, you can’t undermine management if you disagree with a decision. Always try to see every situation from the perspective of the other person. I would often hear him call a few people "retarded" on set. Doesn't that mean I should just do If you’ve said yes to any of these, you’re NOT a good person by God’s standards. The best way for a mean person to morph into a nice one is to talk shit to the wrong person. My work It all really depends on the person that says it imo. It got to the point that I was needlessly fighting my friends and only when I was confronted about my attitude and I got to hear my friend's perspective that I shifted (this was towards the end of high school btw). I mean you don’t like being an asshole and you reached out for help. Even with my family, I get irritated over small, almost irrational things. Moreover, I don’t think people realize how tiring it is to always have the be a good person and to always be positive and selfless. You overgeneralize yourself far too much. They are mean because there's 1000s of banned players who make new accounts and destroy the game for new players. I'm truly sorry for how I was in I am still nice enough in person, but the inside has turned mean. I was volunteering to be an extra in a recent music video since I was a fan of his. The fact that I can feel emotions even if they are too much sometimes is a gift in itself. What are the traits of a mean person? As the definition above proves, there are mean people in this world. You can ask for a transfer or find a different employer to get away from this particular mean person. If you’re questioning whether you’re ‘evil’ or a bad person then I really don’t think you are. Do your best. Conversations with a boring person can feel like you're interviewing them because you're asking all of the questions. Skip to main content. I think theres more to the constant breakups than what she portrays in her music. id already went through that stage theres no need to hate the world. It honestly is hard to date a bipolar person, but that does NOT MEAN, we Yeah, I'm on my mid twenties. I suggest you mute the chat because there's no point in seeing anything people type. thats just one person expressing their (imo) WRONG opinion. And think through each of the situations you presented. Don't worry about appearing to be rude to this person, she doesn't get the concept anyway. If you believe yourself to be a negative person, it lets you off the hook; you have an excuse to keep looking for proof that enforces that view. I overthink every situation ever and I get anxious about it and then I say something completely uncalled for. He was taking shots at management on air, who knows what he was doing off the record. And its not like one single person thinks im mean. Personally I think Charli is a really mean person behind the scenes. Office politics makes me extremely uncomfortable it literally triggers my anxiety when I see things like unnecessary brown nosing etc is there anyway to be successful without playing the game because I really suck at it I have a friend who would be described as an activist. And so it can become your self fulfilling prophecy. itll get better but not if you stay bitter your only holding yourself prisoner. She the says I was the one driving. bad people can eventually become good people. It means they were human. I’m not very judge mental, I’m not fake, and I’m a true friend. But new generations have perverted it to be so. I’ve never understood why I enjoy being mean so much though. There was a post about a straight person being confused about their sexuality but ended up being straight because their crush was actually trans and then said they could "predict people's genders". It can be fun to watch. At different points in their life, that person did bad things. i can’t tell you how many times i’ve I love you human being :nohomo: <3 Im a human too I ve gone trough what ur going right now. We're called No Stupid Questions because we believe nobody needs to be attacked for asking a question, but that While these feelings are valid and real to me that doesn't mean they are fact. I am a mean person and need help. It's not bad to Boring people can also be one-dimensional and only be able to talk about the same thing repeatedly. That is so great that you are concerned and want to know how to deal with the situation. i always knew that i was a bad person but i was just too lazy to change that and now i regret it so much. Lately my friends have been saying stuff like “you’re a mean person” and when i ask them to explain or contradict what they say, they go “no you just are. I’m not saying they’re wrong but none of us really know him, he’s done some certainly questionable things. I’m not a nice person. Anyone who follows her on tumblr knows that it's not possible for her to be a rude person. I have a boyfriend and we live together which satisfies the social part of my life. I need to remember we are all flawed in our own ways. i'm mean to children, only care about myself, love doing drugs, the list goes on. I kinda drew a line when I killed a 10 year old in Minecraft over and over destroying his property and calling him the n word. She once backed into my SUV and did about $1,000 in damage. I show up to work. One was bullied by everyone (mostly for being an incredibly mean person) and I was a bit player. Figure out what kind of person that people want get surrounded. But these days I’ve been like thinking mean things of people even when they’re doing nothing I’m admitting to myself that I’m a mean person. But I still hold onto the negative messages "your a mean person, you have a way of hurting people's feelings" and it's been hard. There will be mean people wherever you work. Not just like a little bit either, no, I’m completely filled with envy. I’m pushing people away because of of it and I don’t know how to stop. These days I sorta keep to myself, Im kind humble and empath. I still feel obligated, perhaps out of habit, to put myself last and put in the extra effort to be a “good person”. Never forget this. Fourth thoughts and you’re Tiffany Aching. Have one dream about X thing or person Hyper-fixate/ruminate on that dream Increase the likelihood that you'll dream about X thing or person again Have dream again Believe that this must mean something important Consequently, hyper fixate on the dream even more intensely, even more frequently Go back to step 4 It all really depends on the person that says it imo. So your new mission is to go fuck with the biggest meanest bitch in your area, in hopes that she will beat the living shit out of you. There’s a book called the selfish gene and it talks about how ultimately, everything anyone ever does is selfish. So I would say attention, I like to be desired, even if I'm not particularly interested in the person. Once you’ve had your beating you’ll realize that it’s in your best interest to be, or at least act nice to people. Im sure you will get into situations in which you will take things less seriously. I love you and Im interested Im what you do and what you play and the movies you watch, lets be friends :) take a HUGE HUG!!!!! U are oneof the bravest people on earth I know u can MAKE IT (whatever u want) :)) peace, love and courage. She’s genuinely very kind and the energy that radiates from her is so beautiful in person! But I feel that mental health depressed feelings of suicide and mental pain and illness is suffering from the most primal and private depths of or own minds im sorry what I trying to express badly is say for instance you and another person both hypothetically lost someone or something that was very dear to you the pain felt is in the mind and the pain felt is now onely depending on the If you try to point out horrible behavior, she'll literally start telling you that you did what she did. I don’t want to be someone I’m not. I've only been able to open up to people im close to, and trust me, it was hard. even Sometimes when a person, either in real life or online, initiates a conversation with me I immediately wish they didn't because my experience with conversations is such that I don't know how to carry them long enough like other people do and then comes the dreaded stage where I eventually run out of things to say, questions to ask, jokes and quips to add, my mind is left I mean Warner for all his rehab has form. We are speaking and eventually me having a girlfriend comes up and he says “what woman would want you, you look like a lesbian” And commented on me me needing a brah (I’m a dude) . Research suggests several potential causes. Anyway I’m an open person so it does not mean I can’t have a friendly chat with said person. I guarantee it. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. i forgot my phone this morning at home and so when i got to work i called my partner and asked if he’d be able to bring it to me on his way into work. Being raised by a covert narc, im so paranoid that im covert to the point where im tricking people into loving me. In my case,I choose to be my self and know how make others feel better. " response. Most of the time i just let the over guy speak in a 1 on 1 and then theres an awkward silence and then either tries to ask me a question and i answer with one word or just doesnt say anything at all. All of them can say, I Now, I don't mean you're broken in any way, but I've been in therapy myself for two years (anger problems) and it's been a revelatory exercise. I feel like everyone will "find me out" and think I am terrible or mean. If they get to love dogs and be annoying about it, I get to hate dogs and be equally as annoying about it. Even though I don’t do it on purpose. She organizes protests, fights for causes, etc. So when Reddit user u/TheNaughtywoman asked: "What are signs that a person is Let’s dive into the core of why we sometimes find ourselves acting mean. You are welcome to try again in future when your account is more mature. I always give up. All my friends think I´m the funniest person but I´m still alienated by most people and still feel quite awkward in groups often, because people actually take themselves and everything so serious all the time they dont know how to cope with my constant joking remarks and my total utter cruel disregard for No one on Reddit can accurately diagnose you. People are so scared of their own emotions this days! Of course, someone else's emotions (even positive) scare them too, remind of Hi everyone as the title saids I'm turning into a really bad person but I don't feel the need to change it. But sometimes we get stuck there in bitch Nobody is perfect. I only opened up to three people in my life, one online, and two others in person. I'm trying to do that more often and it's a challenge. I think I’m usually a nice person and I wouldn’t ever purposefully say a mean thing to somebody. I certainly hope I’m not mean, and if it were to happen that I was mean, I would totally try and change my ways ASAP. It I feel exactly the same as you. I mean, you're basically just saying to tell myself something until I force myself to believe it, regardless of the reality of the situation. The ones who know they are mean are the ones who worked to change and and not be mean anymore. ” I think im quite emotional as a person but as much as I might complain about emotional I may be i wouldn't change it. I don’t care that other people are doing well, I want them to feel what I feel. I want to stop being mean/condescending towards others. That said, two hypotheses come to kind based on your brief description — one is nonviolent sociopathy (sometimes called callous and unemotional or CU traits; not a formal diagnosis), while another possibility is neurodevelopmental social-emotional deficits (e. I have asked my friends how what I've said was mean and always get a "You know what you are doing. Thank you. There's many good things about you. Technically, dumb doesn’t mean slow. try to get out and reward yourself maybe you feel like your selfworth is gone then along goes your social skills and then you isolate yourself. It comes down to when your energy levels peak. people think i’m rude but in reality, im just incredibly blunt. He starts his day a couple hours later than me, but we don’t have a car and he uses a moped to commute. This is in contrast with a morning person who wakes up with a lot of energy that decreases throughout the day. A lot of mean people look for easy targets to drain their venom on. i don’t think these instances you described were in any way mean, i think these people are just offended or maybe sensitive. You think the worse thing that can happen is you die and that’s it? Wrong. I genuinely don't understand how people can be positive, look at the bright side of life, etc. I kinda hate people. Try to think about how you would act in their situation and what maybe drives them. I could go on. I realized the gravity of this now that I visit home again and see how my family acts and treats others (and each other as family) and realized where it was coming from. I also find with compliments im almost always Okay, I know this aint the right place to ask, but how do yall use FBT with Virtual Desktop well. First thoughts are a reaction, second thoughts are your true self. Spongebob is a comedy and their bad behavior is for the sake of humor, so I can't judge Squidward's behavior the same way I would judge the same behavior in a more serious TV show. Here's my advice: Reflect and clarify for yourself what you truly want for yourself and others. I’ve never been a i feel the same way honestly. Squidward has moments of compassion and is a good enough person to sympathize with. But I don't know why I'm so hateful over I am not mean to anyone, I try to respect people's decisions and keep my mouth shut when I don't have anything positive to add. This means that the person who is feeling guilty has good values. comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A Add a Comment. But it just means it is difficult for people to get to know me. but also some of those actions were interpreted as tough love that ultimately furthered that person's ability or resolve. Without knowing what they mean/if it's true, start asking for more feedback. I can’t help but receive backlash for my forward speaking-upfront raising valid issues such as sources and général punctually all of the things that impact everyone. Even as a little kid when I read these books I knew that Greg was a bad person. If you have an ace person like me in a relationship, my relationship is not straight just because I'm married to a guy. Hopefully you will be able to take control of your behavior, because remember, the world sucks, 90% of people do not get enough opportunity to do well and they have to live paycheck to paycheck working in a shitty job, but it does not give us the right to be mean to others, our pain is ours we should not share it. Now, I am by no means a morally corrupt person, so most rational people are able to shrug off my dislike of dogs and we get along just fine. You are in good company. Think of the best person you ever knew, someone you idolized. Well first, I actually want to say, IF YOU ARE DATING A BIPOLAR PERSON YOU NEED TO PRACTICALLY MAKE GROUND RULES AND AS A NUMBER ONE RULE YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE THE BIPOLAR PERSON IS ON THEIR MEDS AND TAKING THEM AT EVERY TIME AND DOSE. You are human. But I evolved, I grew. Do NOT give in to these intrusive thoughts about causing chaos. Boring people can also lack curiosity and only talk about themselves without listening to and asking things about the other person. The term for a person's relationship is dependent on them, not on who they're dating. You could go in circles with this stuff. Same with my friends. It’s not seen as offensive which is why foreign idols don’t call themselves International Idols and just straight up call themselves foreigners. And I don't mean minor things. Nothing wrong with you at all. There’s nothing wrong with being naturally serious. We noticed you are a pretty new Reddit account, so we just wanted to let you know to check out the subreddit rules here and maybe have a read through our Frequently Asked Questions - they make for fascinating reading!. You have made mistakes in the past. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log If you're taller, your head is higher up, which may mean a shorter person may have to expend more effort to get a punch in at your I wish I could say it gets easier after this realization, but even I still have my fair share of punching the literal wall and crying because people (including myself) can be so unjustifiably mean. Douchebags. Constantly, I’m being told what I am, and I deny it, but deep down, I know it’s true. Ie im lazy, forgetful, I’m a terrible daughter because I don’t want to spend time with my mom (I’m 17 it’s not uncommon but my mom makes me feel guilty about it Im fine in groups but then went is 1 on 1 im like oh shet. i know we all get tired of peoples bullshit and the You thought you were the only one who was mean to their beloved? I’m afraid not. ive just binged questlove's past podcast episodes where he interviews just about everyone involved in the prince "family" everyones stories pretty much coincided and im left surprised how petty and mean he could be. the comments above were observations others made in this sub when someone asked the same question as me a few years ago. Also, saying 'im a mean person that's just who I am' is going to come off as an attempt at emotional manipulation and acting like the victim, when it comes from someone who is genuinely mean. Being with a person who was depressed for me was hard. She's a passionate person. You admit yourself you do good things, this means you DEFINITELY aren't a bad person! It can be super hard to break away from the negative vision of yourself because your brain thinks it's the "reality" but it's all bullshit! Don't listen to it! Hi u/Serious-Addendum-380, . My mind just likes to go to the worst case scenario first. i hate myself so much. 17 votes, 22 comments. I don’t think a bad person would care this much about being considered a bad person. Keep your head up and don’t let it bother you. I moved away to another state where it this person once more exposed me and I had no choice but to accept the label that I was a mean girl. A lot of people have trouble putting their best selves forward if they're stressed out You aren't a negative person. I don't want to be, I want to be nice again but sometimes I'm just so rude My experience is that people throw that word around whenever someone says or does something they don't like, and it's taken as "mean" whether the person was really trying It sucks when it feels like people don't like you or if they say mean things because you might think there has to be some truth to the bad things people think, but 1 or even 100 A mean person is someone who is unkind or cruel with the intention to put others down and make them fail. It's yet another thing that made it's way into mainstream naive psychology by means of the Theoretical Psychology --> Educational Psychology pipeline. The reason why you think you’re a good person is because you’re judging yourself by your standards. Just be a good person in life. but also would like the perks of being a woman lol . My life is going nowhere and I'm too stupid for it to ever go anywhere. They justify everything as the other person deserving it. 99% of my problems would be fixed if I was a stronger person. I'll give an example just to clarify what I mean: I’m an angry, hatred-filled, horrible person. I met a mean person at a bar who shamelessly bullied me and I hate how I reacted Sometimes, when you meet someone, you may notice a tiny little sign that they may not be as kind as they appear. In all serious tho, he didn’t mean anything by it - that’s just the way the language is used and translated. I’ll help, be hospitable, pleasant and all that but the second it goes from me just shooting the shit to maybe personal questions, or over staying their welcome, or pushing boundaries I’ll do a complete 180 and set the record straight. And I do love them all. In fact I've never had a person in my life who felt or ended up better because of my presence. Recognize that you aren’t perfect, and try to accept that. if they did, they’d most likely take steps to becoming a good person. Literally it was hard work! Everyday is different, you really do not know what to expect. She gets scared easily though as when she called my name to answer my question for soundcheck I screamed because I was so excited and she was shook haha. I just can’t make close friends no matter how hard I try, maybe I just haven’t met the right people but it’s been 28 years and I grew up feeling so lonely and isolated. . Im a very private person and find it hard to show the true me to people for fear of being judged or saying the wrong thing. " She told me when you are learning you must always search to find something to spark your interest to help your mind grow, or you will become a boring person. Because of all this, I'm easily the weakest person I know. My teacher said almost exactly that to me. I've tried getting into fitness like 10 times. I'm worried that I'm a cruel person. Coyote a murderer. One just really wanted to get to know me, and the other I met on a dating site who wanted to give me a chance. Because mostly i dont start conversations and i just add on to what the group is talking about. I need to start taking responsibility and stop using my social anxiety as an excuse for everything. What I mean is: researchers doing basic science in some aspect of psychological theory, generate some theory that for a short time is a useful way of thinking about a pattern of data. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Like literally nothing is fun if it isn’t ruining something for someone else. Always kept my shitty mambos to myself. I know sometimes when I say that to people (in this instance to someone i dont know) I mean it in the sense of "I dont know how to accommodate to everyone specifically, due to me not wanting to put in the effort at the given moment or just not knowing how to. I'm yet to know if I've ever fallen for a person or for the attention they have given me. Or maybe I’m having a cookout and invite neighbors, whatever. only myself. Boring people can also be one-dimensional and only be able to talk about the same thing repeatedly. Between the bffs podcast, to how she handled the drama with her ex Chase Hudson as well as how she acted on her tv show, it made me realize how mean and entitled she actually is. Often, it’s not a simple case of “I’m a bad person” – more likely, there are underlying issues that trigger this behavior. g. Your post doesn't give the impression. Every time I meet somebody "intense", I find it refreshing and alive. Nobody is ever perfectly stable, you're not doomed. looking back they realize they used to be mean. A person who has no good values would not feel guilty. It means I am trying to know God's agapé for each and every single one of His creations, and that I am trying to show God's agapé to each and every single one of His creations. I like to be to the point and not beat around the bush EXCEPT for certain situations that obviously need some sort of emotional tone. I am far more alert and active in the afternoon and evening than I am in the morning. As you progress through life you are going to necessarily need to defend your time and energy from those who will drain it without reason or remorse. The odds he'd remember are close to zero, or if he did it'd be neutral since I was one of the few people who was nice to him when I wasn't participating in attacking him. I obsess over the idea that people will see the real me and think im unworthy, selfish etc. I know sometimes when I say that to people (in this instance to someone i dont know) I mean it in the sense of "I dont know how to accommodate to everyone specifically, due to me not wanting to put in the effort I don't know what is wrong with me. Normally, the solution to this would be less time on the internet, but I realize it’s easier to be one’s “true self” online because of the anonymity and then put on a friendly display IRL. It means I ask for forgiveness when I have sinned. "Nice" people won't be mean and nasty in retaliation. The reason for this is to deter trolls, bots and sockpuppet accounts. r/martialarts A chip A close button. I feel bad about it not because I personally tormented him severely, but because I joined a mob that did and I'm not sure if I'm a mean person I just got into this altercation on social media where I was apparently being extremely rude when I feel like everyone else was being rude. That’s right - I would say it’s simply human Im at the point of considering just stopping talking to anyone but thats probably not easy to do or healthy if it were. There is good and bad in the world and also good and bad in every single one of us - we all make mistakes and we all hurt people throughout our life whether we mean to or not I wouldn't consider you a bad person unless you do the things that you're doing that are so bad on purpose With the intention to hurt people I can go beyond my limits and alter parts of my behavior, but im a mentally ill person attempting to navigate agoraphobia and social anxiety on the daily. And when I do find a genuine person who radiates positive energy, I almost cry a little inside. Sounds to me like you’re a good person deep down. AMA" Also, note the headline format there, in case you ever try to do another AMA. Just because I write down and tell myself something I want doesn't make it achievable. She literally cyber-stalks her fans and writes the sweetest, paragraphs-long responses to their posts. Nobody is good but God. Often, I justify these actions as experiments that give me better insight to myself and knowledge I didn't once hold. Reply reply I think I’m decently self aware, and I always apologize That's better than never owning up to what you've done, but I'd take it a step further and say that truly self-aware people do not have to apologize in the first place. Like a couple semesters ago I called some guy a loser in class jokingly (because he wasn't in the same study program as the others in our small project group were, so I joked "oh the loser of the group"), but immediately after I realized that wasn't a really funny joke and was incredibly rude I'm not outwardly "mean" , but there was a point that I realized I was illogically cynical and generally pretty negative. otherwise, what would be the point in them worrying about being a Here's a question: You do realize that there's an insane number of assholes out there, don't you? I mean this is nothing special at all. But, you might also want to find some coping techniques for dealing with the aftermath of encountering a mean person because there's really no way to fully avoid them. That doesn’t mean they were a bad person. That means that for every single person who meets you, you know something they don't. I’m a person (not revealing genders) entering their mid 20s, working full time, living on my own, blazé bla! I recently had a conversation with my If you have a bi person in a relationship, the relationship is queer because of their presence in it. Conclusion: You are a person with good values. I do my best to please everyone and make people happy (typical middle child syndrome). Why we have these tendencies I guess can be traced by to our survival instincts (tribal mentality, and whatnot) and the fear of being ostracized, so we indoctrinate/bully others to meet our I think what you label as being ‘socially reserved’ is probably more you exuding insecurities in social situations, which definitely can come off as rude even when you don’t mean it to. Litterally evsryone i meet does. But being a bad person makes me feel so guilty. Remember you get to decide how you respond to what people do, don’t let it bother you too much, you also get to choose who’s opinions actually mean something to you. The ones we love the most, cop it the most. Hi everyone as the title saids I'm turning into a really bad person but I don't feel the need to change it. And I feel like you hit the spot, each person has had their own upbringing, experiences and growth, and most are trying their best to be the best person they can I had lost sight of this. Sick and it sucks for me. Conscious-Jump-2356 I'm not intelligent, good looking, likable, or constructive in anyway. I find them stupid, annoying, and hard to deal with. More posts from r/mentalhealth subscribers . It means I recognize all that has been done for me and for my brothers and sisters, and I praise and worship God for it. Guilt is a person's realization that they have violated their own values. I mean, it makes a lot of sense on so may levels. But now im much more cynical and keep to myself more than anything. I’m friendly. I am a very blunt and direct person. But sometimes I just catch myself having these thoughts. The official home of Rocket League on Reddit! Join the community for Rocket League news, discussion Hey I am a fellow intense person so I relate A LOT to what you said. Another technique to use is "what do you mean by that?" Or getting them to repeat themselves, it's uncomfortable being mean twice in a row and they likely will change their phrasing. I hate hearing about other people’s successes, especially when they achieve what was my dream. I’m jealous of my friends, family, random people. Idk why I'm even posting Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. I mean, come on. Might as well have titled it: "IAmA member of the largest group of people in the world. , social pragmatic communication disorder, or autism spectrum disorder). You normally don’t want to tell anything to a mean person straight, and you find out if you’re mean through others. I was just a raging bitch and was mean to people who I thought deserved it, and it didn't help that there were also other people who were just as mean and judgmental as I was. "You know what it means if you're bored? It means you're boring. I am now 29 and need to just accept its who I am . So I'll try to look for facts to support my feelings and if there aren't any real things to prove people hate me I usually try to just ride the emotions out. Throughout my entire life I’ve been told that I’m a negative person or I like to complain. If I'm not wrong, the one you're referring to means the person thought about you before they went to sleep. 4M subscribers in the RocketLeague community. So to answer your question, you don’t go to Heaven for being a good person (because we aren’t), you go to Heaven by being born i just realized that im a bad, bad person. I usually don’t mean to, but i always say things that i later regret saying. I mean, you might as well call Wile E. You have seen things, done things, read things, learned things that they haven't. I'd like to describe how I worked with Weird Al a few months ago and how mean of a person he was to me and others. They're not intrusive, but at the I have a fairly negative mindset. i guess maybe i like I mean it sounds like you want to be better and, as a lot of people are already saying, that's the first step. Nearly everyone who is mean doesn’t think they are mean. It makes me untrustworthy of people in general, since the same person who’s nice to your face could also be a horrible person on the internet. Im generally a very easy going person, but I enjoy things being done professionally and if said to be done, hope that the attempts made were done with ones best intent. It's queer because I am queer. But of course, everyone knows not all gossip is real. Second, the time machine is in the shop. About once a month we go out with his friends to a bar (alcohol makes me more social at least) but I love people like you, and I wish more people were like you. Never forget: Every single person you meet knows something you don't. I'm becoming more blunt in my speech, I regard other's feelings less and less unless I need something from them, I'm starting to become more comfortable with doing immorale things and generally I don't really care for the well being of others unless it benefits me in some way. Of course since she’s the person who I talk to the most, she ends up dealing with the brunt of me tearing myself down and painting myself as an awful person to. As a little kid when a read I book I always thought the protagonist was a good person and one that you'd root for but with Greg I knew he was a piece of shit. Bullshit. This does not only make you a better person but makes you very well equipped for debating someone with another opinion. I'm still the same kind and compassionate person because I refuse to become another asshole who rags on people. Which doesnt feel great on my end but im sure Im a mean person when Im stressed out, how do you go about changing this? I’ve noticed these past few weeks (when my stress levels have been extremely high due to school or work) I tend to be a pretty mean person towards my loved ones. *EDIT: Also, don't forget that Ellen Degeneres was considered "nice" for a long time until it was revealed she mistreats her It means nothing, so don't be sucked into that dream meaning nonsense. realistically, bad people dont worry about being a bad person. " Now you know what it feels like to be Asian in America lol. Just because I’m serious doesn’t mean I’m a mean person or anything. I’m naturally reserved and quite I tend to call a spade a spade. Your post/comment has been automatically removed because your Reddit account was created too recently to post or comment in this sub. I feel like I'm becoming a mean and bitter person. I must come across as closed and unfriendly. But upon learning about this romantic orientation, I found my pack and knowing that I'm not alone in this helps me a lot. EDIT: I make eye contact if they make eye contact. I think also just wanting to be a I've always thought that I'm just a really mean person who lead people on and I feel bad everytime. If you were a bad person, you wouldn't see any of this stuff as a problem. Work on your social skills; a fake it till you make it mentality will work wonders. Still have some behaviors to unlearn, but I DON'T blame others and I DO take accountability for my actions. Knowledge is interesting and makes you an interesting person. Every single one of them is a mean girl themselves. An inner voice tells me that I've tricked them and myself into thinking im a good person. i'm what you would call a heratless person. Dont even get me started on Swifties 🤣 A Sub-Reddit for all things martial arts related. I managed to make new friends in university until the person I was mean to came and I was outed again. (yeah, what I wrote has nothing to do with the question itself but it's already written). Sure, she has one of the greatest publicists ever but putting the amount of time in that she does definitely indicates that it's not an edit: just to clarify , i don’t mean any harm by asking this! i just would love to know more about my favourite artist as a person . We all know this kind of person, the guy who thinks he's God's gift to the world and won't shut the fuck up about it. I guess that's why I like this person so much for so long coz he doesn't like me. Doesn't mean these kind of people are right about anything because they're louder. i would love to feel like im physically stronger than a lot of the population (rather than weaker) because it would make me feel less vulnerable. I’m selfish, I lash out, Im lazy, Im disrespectful, but I just don’t know how to improve. kibq okul fjvx tvwnkyn fknow yjtey hgtwut pvprv uxn qsgvh